no one is perfect
Like everything else, power is a balancing act. While you're building a
memorable reputation and taking care of your appearance, you must take
care not to appear too perfect. A flawless person will inevitably
inspire envy among peers, who may not feel as fortunate as you.
Envy can be a destructive force. It can brew hostility towards you and
cause others to slander you publicly, possibly hurting your reputation.
You can detect envy by excessive praise, sarcastic comments about your
success, and that subtle resentment in the eye.
Appear more human and approachable by revealing a small flaw, or
admitting to a harmless vice. If you get an unexpected promotion, play
it down by saying you were lucky. Act humbly, as though nothing has
changed, even though you know you hold more power.
If you ever make a mistake, calmly admit you were wrong to prevent
others from exaggerating it. By keeping a modest faade, you conceal the
vast wealth you hold within from public spite. As William Shakespeare
once wrote, "Speak less than thou knowest, have more than thou
showest." (King Lear)
front focus
We live in the age of specialists. The Renaissance Man, impressive as
he may be, does not really get anything done. Being very good at one
thing beats being somewhat good at many.
Find your forte and focus all your energy on that. When you were
looking for a job, chances are you did this very important
introspective exercise. You took the time to find out what you are the
best at and how you can sell this to an employer. By concentrating your
forces on one strength or goal and pursuing it to the end, you have an
advantage over those less focused.
Warren Buffettplays this game to perfection. Instead of investing in many different
companies, he puts his money in a select few that he understands inside
out. His focus reduces his risk. The result: he is the most successful
investor in the world.
be the strong, silent type
People are, by nature, creatures of interpretation. The less you say,
the more others will try to piece together what you are thinking.
Saying little makes you seem more profound and mysterious. In their
preoccupation with your intentions, people will admire and respect you
more.
Being curt makes you sound decisive and confident, always in
control of your actions.
And your controlled speech will make others nervously fill in your
silence, potentially revealing important information. This is
especially valuable if you already have a position of power and want to
maintain it. The more you talk, the more commonplace you
become, and the more chances you have of saying something stupid. So
keep it brief, and you will see the difference.
know who you're dealing with
Learning how to size up a person is one of the most important abilities
in your rise to power. You must always know who you're dealing with.
Never assume the person you're speaking with shares your values and
your sense of humor. In an attempt to appear friendly and approachable,
you may be stepping over another man's boundaries and offending him
unnecessarily.
Take your time to know a person before embarking on any move. Know the
source of his pride and insecurity. And since you are so carefully
engineering your own image, assume others may be doing the same. Do not
trust appearances. Keep it formal until you are comfortably acquainted.
This is important when you are dealing with someone more powerful than
you, or someone who can help you. It is equally important when dealing
with clients. Once you know their weaknesses and tastes, you can tailor
your tactic to fit their peculiarities, and then win their good graces.
in a nutshell
Power and recognition is not something achieved overnight. It must be
earned, slowly and carefully, with unflinching determination. What sets
great men apart from everyone else is their resolve to succeed. With
these 10 points and your own willpower, your ascension up the corporate
ladder is practically guaranteed.